WILBRAHAM, MA — The quiet town of Wilbraham is grappling with the aftermath of a tragic incident that left three people dead in what authorities are calling an apparent murder-suicide. Among the deceased are 56-year-old Sima Pariseau and her 27-year-old son Dylan, both discovered last Tuesday inside their family home.
The third individual, identified as 56-year-old Peter Donaldson, also of Wilbraham, is believed to have died by a self-inflicted gunshot wound, thus intensifying the mystery and sorrow surrounding the events. This incident has cast a somber mood over the community, particularly striking those who knew Sima through her volunteer work.
Sima Pariseau was revered for her compassionate involvement with the Center for Human Development’s Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) program. Dedicated to aiding abused and neglected children within the court systems of Springfield and Holyoke, the CASA initiative depends on community volunteers to advocate for the needs and rights of children in foster care.
Cassandra Hildreth, the assistant program director at CHD’s CASA program, remembered Sima as a beacon of tranquility and kindness. “It’s incredibly difficult to reconcile the serene person Sima was with the violence of her passing,” Hildreth remarked, reflecting on the profound impact Sima had on everyone she met.
Sima’s journey with CASA began about a year and a half ago. Despite having no prior background in social services or the court system, she quickly became an integral part of the organization, officially becoming a sworn volunteer last June. Her natural ability to connect with families and advocate for their needs made her stand out.
“She saw people for who they are, understood their circumstances, and in her most recent case, she played a crucial role in reuniting a teenager with his mother after a prolonged separation,” Hildreth explained, highlighting Sima’s commitment and empathy.
The loss of Sima and her son Dylan has left a void in the CASA community and beyond. According to Hildreth, the shock has been profound, but the resolve to continue the mission remains strong. Sima’s legacy is hoped to inspire others to join the cause and advocate for children who are often lost in the shuffle of the judicial system.
In these moments of loss and reflection, the influence of a dedicated volunteer like Sima Pariseau reminds us of the indelible impact one individual can have on the lives of many. Her commitment to service and the welfare of children stands as a beacon for others to follow—a testament to a life that, while tragically cut short, was deeply meaningful.
Those wishing to honor Sima’s memory and contribute to continuing her work can find resources and information on how to get involved with the CASA program through the Center for Human Development. As the community mourns, there is solace to be found in sustaining her commitment to advocacy and care.